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How does one succeed in life?

09.06.2025 00:05

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How do I complain on a boy coming to marriage with me without my involvement despite no connection with him though he had an illegal affair?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Is it common for Americans to feel "trapped" due to the size and distance of their country from other countries/continents? Is this feeling an exaggeration or a reality?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Ask yourself:

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why does my dog keep licking at her privates now? She is 7 years old and has barely started licking there. The vet said she’s fine but she keeps doing that.

Hangs out with loser friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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That's it for today.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Would you join a gym or workout at home and why?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.